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The True Meaning of Love.

My parents were married for 55 years. Throughout that time, they built a life together based on respect, companionship, and a quiet kind of love — the kind that doesn’t need words to be felt.

One morning, my mother was coming down the stairs to prepare breakfast for my father, as she did every day, when she suffered a heart attack and collapsed. My father, overcome with panic and urgency, did the only thing he could: he lifted her as best he could and, nearly dragging her, placed her in his truck. Ignoring traffic lights and speed limits, he raced toward the hospital.

But when they arrived, it was already too late. She was gone.

At the funeral, my father remained silent, his gaze distant. He barely cried. That night, we sat beside him — my siblings and I — trying to find comfort in memories and stories about our mother.

Between one memory and another, my father turned to my older brother, who is a theologian, and asked in a trembling voice:
— Do you think she is somewhere now?

My brother spoke about faith, spirituality, and the mystery of what awaits us after this life. My father listened in silence. After a few minutes, he slowly stood up and said:
— I want to go to the cemetery.

We were surprised.
— Dad, it’s almost 11 p.m. It’s very late.

With tear-filled eyes, he replied with firmness and sorrow:
— Please don’t argue with a man who just lost the wife he lived with for 55 years.

With that, we said nothing more. We got in the car and drove to the cemetery. The night guard allowed us in, and with the light of a flashlight, we walked together to our mother’s freshly closed grave.

My father knelt beside the headstone, gently ran his hand over the cold marble, and whispered a prayer. Then he looked at us and said something that will forever be etched in our hearts:

— It’s been 55 years. You know, no one truly understands what love is until they live an entire life with someone. We shared everything: the joys, the sorrows, the remarkable and the ordinary moments. We faced job changes, sold our house, celebrated your victories, cried over the loss of loved ones. We prayed together in hospital waiting rooms, hugged each other every Christmas, and forgave each other’s mistakes.
Do you know why I’m at peace?
Because she left before me. She didn’t have to endure the pain of losing me, of being left alone. I love her so much that I thank God for that. If someone had to stay behind, I’m glad it was me.

We listened in silence, our eyes filled with tears. On that cold night, we all embraced, as if trying to keep warm what was left of that love — a love that was also ours.

My father, even in his grief, wiped away our tears and said with serenity:
— It’s okay. We can go home now. It was a good day.

That night, I learned the true meaning of love. Not the one in movies, made of overwhelming passion and fancy words. But real love, made of commitment, companionship, and small daily gestures.
A love that lasts a lifetime — and maybe even beyond it.


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